SHE confides her love life, the heartaches, the unfinished business..
I listened.
Told her I won’t say I know how you feel because I don’t.
Never experienced it.
I listened.
That’s what she needs.
After some time…
SHE rattles on again with the difficulty of long distance affairs, of loving and being left hanging…
I speak.
Long Distance Affairs can really be difficult.. but different difficulty degrees to different types of relationship..
Loving .. oh yes we can chat all day and night!
Left Hanging? … Expecting a phone call and yet the phone doesn’t ring, anticipating a text and it doesn’t come? Longing for an e-mail, and offline message but still nada?
I’ve shared my dreams with him, he ruined my life!
How could he?!!!
Yes I know I have to move on.. but still it is easier said than done!
I am hurting!.. a lot!
I hate him!!!!!
I hate him!!!!
I guess, no matter what our intentions are, the healing process must be undergone personally
No matter how many words we utter
Words of encouragement, support..
They will simply remain words..
Until after the person learned the lesson and make it her own
Until then we can only do so much…
This is for you… hope and pray that you will soon learn to forgive him, and yourself.. It is only with true forgiveness that you learn the greatest lesson ever…
Love hasn’t left you…
Hhhhmmm…this has really intrigued me now…:-) – Len
moving on in a such bad relationship is very hard, family n frends will give advices and somtimes they will be irritated coz of d same story shes/hes goin 2 tell. well its easier said dan done but nothing hurts more dan a broken heart, a pain that stings and doesnt part. a broken heart may never ever heal wen you know dat love was real.
hard 2 live in d present wen left widout ur side and move into d present n future without u..and worst without closure in a relationship. still so many questions dat left unanswered n asking urself dat if u rily deserved 2 b treated dat way.
but i know, life has its own ways of healing even those wounds that are deeply inflicted in a person’s soul..but only time can tell and let us respect their mournings, all they nid are listeners n somebody hu cud understand them, eniways der r are stages of coping up..hu knows forgiveness will follow..hopefully soon.